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Saturday, February 17, 2018

Ms. Sista Parasite Strikes Again: Causes a Disruption in the Queens Court!!!

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Ms. Sista Parasite Chronicles:


Ms. Sista Parasite Strikes Again: 
Causes a Disruption in the 
Queens Court!!!

Greetings Queens… I started writing a different blog post... but suddenly... I mean... all of a sudden... all at once... meaning a Whitney Houston "All at Once" moment... I had to clutch my invisible pearls because there was a rumbling in my spirit… I mean it was a foreseeable disturbance... because I felt a disturbance in the force, Ladies…

My spirit was troubled because there was an “out of order…” disturbance in the Queens Court… my online… YouTube guilty pleasures... and the fans... YouTube vloggers have intensely stated that one of the Queen Judges was responsible… or Ms. Monique… or another source… but in my opinion… our Ms. Sista Parasite has struck again… Just Saying!!!


So, as I have been analyzing this situation… I can clearly see who the Ms. Sista Parasites are and there are many... 

I can clearly see why and how they infiltrated my beloved Queens Court which resulted in a bunch of disorderly conduct and confusion… and more importantly... a disruption of my Monday nights or Tuesday sometime in the day... entertainment schedule… Just Saying! Let’s begin…

Wait a minute... please hold on before I forget and be accused of stealing others’ ideas…


Due to the popularity of this show with the addition of last week's controversy... I made an exception... and a nosey point... to watch this weeks' live stream of this show... 

Well, by circumstance... it was announced... by Queen Judge Ms. Maddie... a hour before it comes on in my area... that the online based show will be on hiatus until Monday, March 19, 2018. 

However, Queen Judge Khia announced that beginning on Mondays... starting Monday, February, 19, 2018 at 8:00 pm... she will be the host of an online show called: "Gag Order" We as the fans are excited... but unsure if Queen Judge Ms. Maddie will be participating?!?

Well, when both of our Queen Judges were a no show for court as well as the bailiff… I knew it would be some things said live on the YouTube streetz that I could participate in and I knew my Ms. Milan... masquerading as "spill it boy..." James Colwell... would give me the real tea... and thanks for the lovely shoutout on your channel... I feel so blessed! 

However, my research led me to participate in live commentary with so many remarkable Black YouTubers who have given their insights on this disruption in the Queens Court… regardless if it was subjective or objective… most commentary coincided with my personal experiences with the Queens Court, but my personal perspective on this topic must be objective…

So, I want to collectively give them credit as well as give them a plug… I tried to present opinions that were more objective rather than subjective… so, please click those links to support my favorite Black YouTubers and to get more background information their views about this hot social media topic… Now… Let’s begin…


What is this Queens Court... You Asked?


Now, Ladies… if you don’t know about the Queens Court… you must be living up under a rock… or you’re just not into entertaining ratchetness and that’s okay… so, I will get you briefly explain and get you caught up with the “REAL LIFE” drama… television scripted real life drama… So, let me explain what the Queens Court is…

The Queens Court is an online… Periscope, YouTube, Instagram, Facebook and Twitter sensation… streamed from Atlanta, Georgia on Monday nights around 10ish… CPT… that means for my non-Black readers… Color People Time.

It is hosted by the hilarious… but controversial duo: Queen Judge TS Madison “Ms. Maddie” and Queen Judge Khia the “Thug Misses…” who are individual internet sensations in their own rights… but as a duo… these Black Queens are a powerful, Queenly force to be reckoned with!

Queen Judge TS Maddison is a visionary who is well-known… extremely loved and beautiful… Black transgender woman who has created a phenomenal platform for the LGBTQ and Black communities with her smart wit, sharp tongue and savvy business sense…


Queen Judge Khia is a well-known female rapper who’s known for her hit “My Neck and My Back” and is the originator of the Queens Court. She is an independent artist who has been featured on a reality show. She is an intelligent, gifted beautiful Black Queen with a creative spirit and an equally sharp tongue. 

She is also well-known for her Hip Hop beef with Trina another well-known female rapper out of Miami as well as Janet Jackson… Ms. Jackson if you’re nasty.

Although, the Queens Court started with Queen Judge Khia... sitting on her red coach reading and roasting our favorite celebrities... but with her partnership with Queen Judge Ms. Maddie it became an online sensation!

Currently, the production of the Queens Court was collectively moved to Ms. Maddie’s lovely chateau in Atlanta, GA.

This unique brand of comedy is built around reading… “roasts and gags” as the two Queen Judges would say… about our favorite celebrities as well as well-known internet personalities who appear on their version of the court’s docket that ‘We the People…’ meaning the viewers have requested that they discuss based on their shenanigans for the past week…

Now it can be a little raw and gritty… okay… who am I fooling… it’s free ratchet Black entertainment on crack… it’s messy… but funny… not for the kids… or your elders… unless they are messy… Just Saying!!!

However, sometimes… well more often… the jokes can be harsh… they are usually on an extreme disrespectful level… and the language is vulgar… so like I said… it’s Black entertainment with the ratchetness turned up to the highest levels… Just Saying!!!


Summary of the Disturbance and Dissention in the Queens Court


Now... the word is... and was verified because the Chronicle is speaking about all of this social media disorder which reportedly started with the failed interview with comedian and Oscar-award winning actress… and all those other accolades, too many to mention… okay… okay… I didn’t feel like looking them all up… but is recorded that she is one of the most decorated Black female comedian of all times… oh yeah... I forgot... it is our Sistah... Ms. Monique…

Yezzzzzz… Girl… that Monique… you know the one who let Oprah, Lee and Tyler have it which set the stage for her to be blackballed in Holly-weird… Yezzzzzz… Girl… that Monique who is now on Periscope… asking and wanting all of us Blacks to boycott Netflix because of them low-balling her talents… now… I’m not saying that they did or didn’t… I’m just giving the facts for now… but stay tuned…


Anyways… where was I… oh yeah… well Ms. Monique... yes, I know she is married, but not disrespecting her marriage, but I do like to call her... Ms. Monique... 

Well, she was supposed to be on the Queens Court to be interviewed about all of that Netflix boycotting nonsense… But Mr. Timothy... Blaine... I mean blames all of this controversy with Netflix on Monique's lack of competent representation as well as comparing her value to others within her comedic field... however...

This would have been a good look for our Queens, but unfortunately for the Queens…

There were some technical difficulties due to some computer software upgrades and the capabilities of Queen Maddie’s newly hired production team.

Well… technical difficulties turned into Queen Judge Khia refusing to come on camera to be filmed and walking off set with her purse in tow... in a huff, leaving Queen Judge Ms. Maddie feverishly trying to work through the technical difficulties… which lead to her breaking down crying because of frustration…

I would say, feeling abandoned by her Queenly/Sistah co-host during this very stressful situation… while Ms. Monique was still filming the behind the scene tea on her live Periscope feed… seeming to somewhat care, but what was the giggling, the side banter and looks about… Ms. Monique… Just Saying?!?

These circumstances assisted in the destruction of our Queen Judges’ hater resistant immune systems and allowed our Ms. Sista Parasites to attach themselves to the situation, breed and attack because of their hosts weakened state; thus, dividing their once united partnership while laying the foundation of destruction to their budding Sistah-ship.

Meaning… these unfortunate technical difficulties has turned into a division of the Queens Court, internet beefs between the two Queen judges’ fans, Ms. Monique’s fans versus their fans, various bloggers and vloggers… this is an online soap opera with several social media moving parts… hecks… I can’t keep up… all I know… is this is a hot azz mess… Just Saying!!!


Expanding on My Ms. Sista Parasite Theory


See, a Ms. Sista Parasite is a fake entity of nature who secretly attacks you... she is unseen and unnoticed until you feel her deadly effects... unlike a the Skorpion... who will always show you their true intentions… they’re deadly species at birth... but in my opinion... they try to be fair by walking away backwards... stingers in the air at all times... while keeping their eyes on the enemy before stinging that azz... but when there are two... one will try to balance out the other...

In my opinion... the essence of their natural being is they are fair in most circumstances... but deadly... they do try to warn you... but if you keep messing with them... well... they will sting that azz as a united front... Anyways... the individual  nature of their essence… they are born… giving fair warnings while keeping it real!!!

However, if you remember… I told you before in another post… that a Ms. Sista Parasite is an undetected frenemy! They’re a person that pretends to be a friend in your face, but behind your back she is truly your enemy… she can also be an enemy using your failures as a way to elevate themselves... but in this case...

She’s a parasitic organism that latches onto a host while exploiting them for their valuable resources … sometimes meaning that she is using one for the “come up.” Ms. Sista Parasites transcends past gender, race, sexual orientation, social status, religious preference…and so on… this is a universal parasitic disease… affecting us all at one point in our lives… Just Saying!!!


Once a Ms. Sista Parasite has attached themselves to you and she has gone undetected… because of your love… your self-needs or wants and/or your blinding desires to support them… you can see their potential at any cost to you because you value them…

You become so blinded by your individual version of “Captain Save a Ms. Sista Parasite” disease/disorder… you keep ignoring the warning signs…

First, your external warning signs… usually your true Sistahs fall in this category… but you ignore them, and they are getting on your nerves because the truth is a positive force… but you keep trying to see the value in your Ms. Sista Parasite… so you keep allowing them to stay attached to you…

However, your hater resistance immune system is trying to fight off Ms. Sista Parasite before it breeds and causes real damage… but… you have ignored the external and now… you are suppressing the internal warning signs…

Due to your “Beautiful Soul Speaking” and your love for the disadvantaged… maybe shame and judgments is coming into play because of your past because of your hard-knock life… were you are the underdog…

Nonetheless, the reality of your situation is that you are the epitome of the “Me Too” survivor’s movement as you carry your scars with you… not that Holly-weird #MeToo victim’s scars…

Meaning… you take pity while trying to heal… not realizing that you may not have taken the necessary time to or steps to heal… instead, you opt to self-heal, so you can keep grinding…

Trying to save and be there for the other disadvantage people… while subconsciously suppressing your inner buzzing warning signals… not realizing that your Sistah Circle is filled with a variety of types of Ms. Sista Parasites… therefore… weakening your hater resistance immune system… Not knowing… now you have given this parasitic being the clearance to move forward with their parasitic plans…

Now… you begin to purposefully ignore your external and internal warning signs… this allows negative and hateristic thoughts to seep in and eventually… you start looking at your real and true Sistahs in a more negative light… and begin to trust and rely on that pesky Ms. Sista Parasite…

For example, that true Sistah that’s in your corner… now she’s viewed as being an unsupportive being in your life... that Ms. Sista Parasite’s views have now convinced you that she jealous of you… she will try to take you down as soon as your back is turned… she’s not truly happy about your accomplishments and really doesn’t want to see you succeed.

She wants you to be complacent… like her because she doesn’t or won’t allow herself to see your vision… she doesn’t like change… you are driven by her ego… and you don’t truly listen… you hear them… but you’re not listening because you know best… it becomes all about you… your wants and needs and less about the Sistahood… you begin to lash out in public… instead of talking to your Sistahs in private… eventually…

You have unwittingly completed the Ms. Sista Parasite’s mission and now you truly need her because you have cut your real Sistahs out of your life... Just Saying!!!


You Ask... Who is the Ms. Sista Parasite in this Whole Scenario?


Based on my definition of the Ms. Sista Parasite… unfortunately, because of their subliminal social medial commentary between our Queen Judges… the shady messages they are sending to each other… and their YouTube videos addressing what lead up to the behind the scenes shenanigans…

I must say that our Queens are the PRIMARY Ms. Sista Parasites for allowing their inner issues about themselves and each other to fester… or to breed which allowed various types of parasitic entities to unite… gather their numbers to attack and weaken their hater resistant immune systems of their partnership… but more importantly… their Sistahood!

Let me explain… based on comments left by their fans and their public commentary on their various social media outlets… this leads me to believe they both are unconsciously the two major Ms. Sista Parasites responsible for the Queens court’s “out of order” disruptions which has inadvertently infected their Sistahship.


The Queens Court’s Fans: Offspring of Ms. Sista Parasite


The Queens Courts fans... complied of some friends, family, social media fans, bloggers as well as some YouTube vloggers turned into the SECONDARY parasites or the Ms. Sista Parasite’s offspring who are fueling the divide between our two Queen Judges… Let me explain…

See, when the two powerful forces combined for the first time on a whim… both Queens received a lot of negative commentary from their fan base. However, when they united for the newly revamped… Queens Court… this forced both fan bases to support their Queens… whether they liked the other Queen… now I must admit… I watched because of Queen Judge Ms. Maddie, but supported both… but kept my good eye on Queen Judge Khia…

But…

Both fan base collectively helped build the popularity of the show… and now are being blamed for the division between the two Queen Judges… However, both fan base are now divided because of those technical difficulties and took advantage of the situation by spewing their poison into the mix… making them the ones who are fueling the fire... making them a Ms. Sista Parasite.

First, I am going to address why some see Queen Judge Khia as being allegedly homophobic and others see Queen Judge Maddie’s alleged jealousies of Black women because they were identified as being female upon birth based on their genital… Let me explain…

See… as a transgender woman… Queen Judge Ms. Maddie had her own set of fans who are generally from the LGBTQ Black community and Black women… while Queen Judge Khia’s fans aren’t that LGBTQ friendly… and most of her shady comments about this group can be viewed as offensive…


I have been put off by some of her derogatory comments because they were offensive to me as a Black woman who has been judged based on my low-economic status as well as me birthing… raising the FAB Five by three baby daddies by myself… and I am still struggling with... WHILE protecting my gay son…

However, I too have oftentimes wondered how Ms. Maddie could sit there and listen to some of the stuff her Queenly co-host says… but I do see Ms. Maddie… passively address the disrespectful comments… but on the flip side…

Some fans of Queen Judge Khia… wonder why she hasn’t used her aggressive voice to check Queen Judge Maddie about her habit of calling her and other Black women “bitches…”

To me… others who are a part of the LGBTQ community as a whole seem to have the “Black Female Bitch Calling Disorder.”

Some fans have equated this to Queen Judge Maddie’s inner desires to be a Black woman and uses the term “bitch” to shade while degrading our Black Queens that were identified as being female based on their sexual organs at birth.

Now… as a Black woman… who was raised on the “ole school” premise… calling me a Bitch or Black Bitch in my face... well.. those are fighting words… not a term of endearment to me… I find it offensive, but they are not talking to me or about me… so I’ll keep it moving forward because… like I always say… “It is what it is…” Just Saying!!!

However… now when a man… of any race… calls a Black woman a bitch… even when it’s on one of our favorite television programs… we all of a sudden become Black Queens… some get all upset and get in their feelings about these imaginary or real characters… but when a member of the LGBTQ calls us... Black Queens... “bitches” it’s all good… and if I lash out… or in this case… Queen Judge Khia lashes out and starts saying some shady… derogatory slurs… I… or she is homophobic, and we are “angry…” You can’t have it both ways people…

In my mind… I equate it as a Non-Black using the “n” word in front of their Black homies and they laugh it off because they told a funny joke or was reading a person who they mutually don’t care for… but it was caught on camera and uploaded to one your favorite social media platforms… a lot of us Blacks would be offended and ready to whip that Non-Black’s azz… Just Saying!!!


Ms. Sista Parasite’s Offspring Attacks the Bonds of Sistahood between Our Queen Judges


See… I personally believe Sistahood is a state or condition of being Black women who have concrete and collective experiences, struggles, burdens and generalizations; similarly identifying as members of the same gender, race, and social class.

The sistahly bond between Black women is a special and unique one… a bond that is reflective of our identification as Black women… our unique experiences… but bonding us through our similar understandings of those situations as Black women. 

Sistahood to me transcends monetary obligations, professional partnerships and outside negative influences... or any Ms. Sista Parasites.

It is an alliance of supportive Black women of their peers –regardless of relations– who are bonded by spirituality, shared experiences and racial/ethnic or cultural commonalities…

Sadly, our Queen Judges lost their Sistahly sentiments towards each other… along their way climbing up the social media ladder.


They allowed their own individual Ms. Sista parasites to attach themselves to their exceptionally creative and lucrative idea… the parasites have banded together… became an equally powerful force… and have broken down another part of their hater resistance immune system... their Sistahood… Just Saying!!!

For, our Queen Judge Ms. Maddie… it was her past experiences as a porn star and prostitute hustling to survive… living this type of harsh lifestyle… it has allowed her to be a fighter and not a flighter… she is constantly RedefiningHERstory… but at what cost?!? To make this Holly-weird money… you have to sell part of… OR all of your soul… which falls in line with Ms. Maddie’s past and her characteristics… which she brags about on ALL of her social media platforms… 

Sometimes... the mentioning of what she has... or she speaks on the money she has spent... she sometimes forgets that all are not motivated by money... and their moves aren't motivated for the fame... but it's more about the Sistahood... 

Did she ever stop to think if how she might make Queen Judge Thug Misses feel and more importantly... was she comfortable or even willing to sell her soul... or sell out for fame and fortune... Just Saying?!?


This is what Sistahood means to me!!

As I was "Unwining with Tasha K..." she stated it so clearly... she self-sabotages... I had noticed it... but couldn't put my finger on it... but I can see clearly that Queen Judge Khia is still dealing with her past demons and has built a wall that she can only penetrate or control because she is always equated with being a “one-hit-wonder…” and being one who self-sabotages her dreams and aspirations. 

Instead of taking a chance and betting on herself… giving herself another chance for RedefiningHERstory by riding the waves of the Queens Court’s phenomenon… 

Letting go of the negative talk about her past trials and tribulations… embracing those unfortunate and embarrassing situations by talking and laughing at herself… but as soon as she is confronted or has one public snafu happens… she’s either back peddling or she’s MIA… she’s a flighter… instead of being a fighter… 

Did she ever consider that Queen Judge Ms. Maddie was looking out for their best interests while trying to elevate the Queens Court brand... based on their previous conversations...  If you didn't like it... you had a voice... but you went along to get along... so whose fault is that... You can't complain after-the-fact when you knew and were a willing part of the upgraded changes... Just Saying!!!


ejnosillA’s Final Thoughts


See… in my professional opinion… and it doesn’t hurt that I also have a M.A. in Communication Studies… just put that out there for the Ms. Sista Parasites who are still trying to reattach themselves to my life and accomplishments…

Okay… okay… where was I… oh yeah… see in my professional opinion… my heart is so conflicted because I have been in each one of their shoes...

Hecks... I played the many of the Queen Judges' roles that we see being exhibited and discussed... remember... I'm a Black woman who has never married... single mom... raising the FAB Five while trying and achieving my educational goals... but Ladies... I've been through some thangs and I understand... Just Saying!!! 

But... we are simply dealing with these two Queen Judges’ allowing their Ms. Sista Parasites to infiltrate the Queendom through manipulation… unnecessary negative conversation while inflating our two Queen Judges’ egos… by using the other’s past demons as a means to fuel the fire…

Meaning… I believe each one of these Queens have the capabilities to be great on their own… but with Queen Judge Maddie’s savvy business mind… coupled with Queen Thug Misses' creativity and smart wit… as a duo… they are a powerful… powerful… let me say that once again… they are a POWERFUL force to be reckon with!!!

See… in my 45 years of living and being seen as an inferior entity on this earth… being marginalized and generalized while my true essence as a Black woman has been socialized out of existence… the Ms. Sista Parasites of the world… don’t want me… and especially them to succeed!

If our Queen Judges don’t look within first and deal with the demons of insecurities that they have consciously suppressed over the years… the ones that are still dealing with… THEN AND ONLY THEN will they will be able to come together and have a REAL Sistahly conversation… not a surface one…

Meaning, the type of conversation where you allow yourself to be vulnerable… your heart exposed while stating your true feelings… their inner truths… the ones that are not socially accepted… the ones that I have labeled within my various Sistah Circles as being KITT or “KITT-chen Table Talks.”

The ones that might hurt your Sistah’s feelings, but she will understand because they are your truths and she respects you… the ones that you keep in the vault even if we have a falling out… the ones that you share respectfully and sometimes… humbly… disrespectfully to get your point across… the ones that keeps their Sisterly bond unimpregnable… that deep and so real Sistahly conversations that apparently, they have not had because the Queenly trust, partnership and the Sistahood was so easily broken… Just Saying!!!

If these two Queen Judges don’t open their hearts and have this must needed… emotional conversation… then… I am afraid… the Queens Court’s doors will permanently be closed for good!!! 

So if you are a true supporter of the Queens Court and truly value Sistahood... let's send positive messages to our Queens... in hope that they can once again come together and give us our ratchet... but guilty pleasure... Black entertainment fix!!! 


The Question of the Day: 
What does Sistahood mean to you?


As usual...

Please continue to send me your topic ideas/relationship questions: ejnosillA@redefiningherstory.blog.

Stay Blessed Queens!!!





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Picture Reference
TS Madison and Khia's The Queens Court Picture: Retrieved from TS Madison's Instagram Page






4 comments :

  1. Oh my gosh this show sounds hilarious. I’m definitely going to have to check it out! I’d never heard of it (living under a rock here- or four children;) but it sounds like the perfect diversion from real life!

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  2. I just You Tube this show. I have no idea what the hell I am watching, but, I am loving it!

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  3. this is a great blog! i love the youtube show!

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  4. I have yet to watch Queens Court but have heard so many great reviews on it. Sistahood is important - we need to uplift each other so we all succeed!

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